My Dogging - Doggers Guide and Dogging Tips
18th Jun 11

Having sex in a public toilet can be hot. Whether it’s a fantasy you are living out with a partner, or a stranger you’ve met at a club, the experience can be fun for many reasons. You’re in public with a chance of getting caught, which always spices up the mood. You’re also in a small place where you have to be creative to pull this off, which is another turn on for many. If this is something you want to do, here are a few things to think about.


While it may sound hot, it’s important to remember that public toilets are among the dirtiest places on earth. You want to be careful when having sex in a public toilet to avoid getting any kind of infection. If possible, sex standing up will allow you to have fun without sitting down on any dirty surfaces.

Make it Quick

Part of the appeal of sex in a bathroom is the fact that you could get caught. It will be much hotter and less risky if you opt for a quickie. This way people don’t pile up at the door waiting for a chance to use the toilet. Quickies can be great, and can be a good way to increase the sexual appeal for later in the evening.


Adult clubs, night clubs, and public parks are all popular places to get freaky in a toilet. Some locations just aren’t going to work, and may be more trouble than it’s worth. Avoid shopping centers, schools, and other places where people won’t be as open to the idea. If you get caught you may face legal trouble.

28th May 11

If the forecast is calling for a rainy night you will probably find yourself wondering if there will still be dogging that is going on. You will find that there are a few different things that you will be able to look at to know for sure if there is actually going to be any dogging that will be taking place on the rainy night in question.


The temperature is something that is going to have a lot to do with whether or not the rain is going to affect the dogging. If it is extremely cold and also raining, then it will be a lot more difficult for you to get people that actually want to go out in this. However, if it is a spring or a summer rain, people will be a lot more likely to not mind it as much.

Amount of Rain

If heavy downfalls are in your future, then expect people to stay home. Heavy rain will make it difficult for people to even be able to see inside of the car and it will mostly just be uncomfortable for everybody. However, a light rain can make it very sexy and fun.


If you are just talking about rain, then people will probably be okay to go out in this. A lot of people actually love to be outside in the rain. However, if you are looking at heavy rain along with lightning and thunder, then people will more than likely want to stay indoors and try it again another night.

10th Apr 11

Dogging is a popular activity in many parts of the world. People will post their information online hoping to attract more people who are also interested. The problem with this can be if too many people show up, issues can arise.

Too Many People

Too many people at a dogging location is a bad idea. First, it lessens the chances of you finding a partner to play with that night. Second, it draws unnecessary attention to the area. If a normally semi-secluded park suddenly is over run with fifty or more people, it’s going to arouse suspicion. This suspicion can lead to police and embarrassing charges. The size of the park will determine what is too many.

Size Matters

If the park is very small, or you are using a rest area for dogging, you want to avoid locations that have more than six or seven doggers. More than this will draw attention, and it is hard to miss a bunch of people having sex in a small park. However, if you are using a state or city funded park that is larger, you can feasibly have as many as thirty people without it becoming  a problem. The best way to tell is to look at the parking lot. If the lot looks relatively empty with just a few cars, you’re going to be fine. If the small parking lot is suddenly almost full, it’s a good idea to find another location.

3rd Mar 11

A glory hole is a small cut out in a wall that is just large enough for a man to fit his penis in. The idea is to use the glory hole to receive anonymous sex from a stranger. These used to be very popular in gay clubs and in park toilets, but finding a glory hole is more difficult now than it was 20 years ago.

Where To Find A GloryHole

Since the idea of using a glory hole is still a popular fantasy for both men and women, many swingers and adult clubs have bathrooms with glory holes in them. This allows people to live out their fantasy without getting in to trouble. A lot of adult shops that have private viewing booths for videos also still have glory holes. You can find listings online of public parks that may still have them as well, but using these can be risky.

Be Safe

As fun as it may sound to use a glory hole, you still need to be safe about it. If you are a man, use a condom before you put your penis in the glory hole. For a woman, have some condoms with you to put on before you play. Anonymous sex isn’t what it used to be, and you have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases more now than you did back in the day when these were becoming popular.

20th Feb 11

Dogging is no longer an activity only done by gay men. Many straight couples are finding it’s an exciting way to enhance their sex life. Couples frequently go dogging successfully. If you are a couple who is interested in dogging, here is some simple advice that can make it a great experience.

Be Clear

If you are posting an ad online telling others where to find you for a dogging experience, you need to be clear about what you are looking for. If you just want someone to watch, be clear about this in the ad. If you are open to play, put this as well. If you are just hoping to find other couples or people in the park, before anything happens, make your expectations known.

Be Safe

Telling a close friend where you plan to be is a great idea. This way if something happens at least someone knew what your plans were. Even if you don’t tell them what you plan on doing, just knowing that someone else knows where you will be is a good idea. Also make sure you keep a cell phone with a full charge on you at all times. This way in an emergency you can call for help. Carrying condoms and lube is also important since dogging typically involves sex with strangers in some form. Even if you don’t plan on doing anything that would require a condom, it’s a good idea to have your bases covered in case you change your mind.

6th Jan 11

Dogging was once mostly popular among gay men, but as the idea has become more mainstream, more women are following suit. Female dogging can present a unique set of challenges, and safety is also something that should be a concern. If you are a woman and interested in dogging, here are a few helpful hints to help you have fun and stay safe.

Don’t Post Your Location

If you use phone apps like Foursquare, or you find dogging locations by scouring forums, be sure not to post your location to these services. You can find others this way, but posting that you are looking for a dogging experience as a woman is never a good idea. This tells the world you are alone, expecting sex, in a park. Just because you are hoping for sex doesn’t mean it should be forced on you, so posting this kind of information is never a good idea.

Tell A Friend

Hopefully you have a close friend who understands your dogging needs. You should let someone know when you plan on going out, and where you will be. This won’t be putting all your information out there, but if something were to happen at least someone would know where you are.

Carry Protection

Always carry condoms with you. Having a small tube of personal lubricant is also a good idea. Even though dogging is all about being in the moment, you don’t want that moment to leave you with a disease or a pregnancy. Take matters in to your own hands and always be prepared.

14th Dec 10

Dogging is a popular activity in many parts of the world. The appeal of semi-public sex that is somewhat random and anonymous is exciting for a lot of people. Dogging used to be primarly found in the gay community, but the appeal has nothing to do with gender, and many more straight people are starting to experiment with this. If you are a man looking for a good dogging experience, here are a few tips you can use.

Know What To Look For

Many people will go online to post the locations they will be at for dogging. If you run across an ad for this, be sure you have some kind of identifying information. If they simply say ‘look for the car with the light on’, you may find a rude surprise when the car you approach with the light on knows nothing of it. Try to find ads that give the color of the car, or even the make and model. The more information you have, the better the chances of finding another dogger.

Follow The Rules

If you find a couple who just wants people to watch, don’t assume that they will let you play after a while. This is a good way to end up hurt or arrested. Be sure you understand what others are wanting before you assume you know. This will save a lot of awkwardness later.

Be Safe

Carry condoms on you in case you do find some play. Also let a friend know where you will be in case anything happens. Having a cell phone that is charged is also an excellent idea.

28th Nov 10

Whenever you are dogging in the winter you will need to know how to keep warm. This is something that a lot of doggers will struggle with. You will need to make sure that you understand a few tips and tricks so that you will be able to keep yourself comfortable.

In The Car

Typically, the people that are in the car aren’t going to have too much trouble keeping warm. The best thing that you can do for this is to make sure that you have the heater turned on high while you are driving to the location. You will want the car to be pretty warm by the time that you turn it off. This will allow the heat to stay in the car until you and your partner are able to warm it up yourselves.


If you are outside of the car watching, then you may have a little bit more trouble staying warm. You will find that being able to dress nice and warm is something that is of course going to be very important. Wear layers and make sure that you allow the heater in your car to be on full blast while you are on the way to the location. Whenever you are nice and warm leaving the car you will be able to stay that way for a little longer.


Keep a thermos filled with coffee or hot chocolate nearby. You will find that being able to have a warm drink to drink will help you to be able to stay warm even when you are out in the cold.

5th Nov 10

Sex in a service station is a fantasy for many women. Something about the idea of a burly mechanic ravaging a woman is a turn on for many people. The truth is this rarely happens unless it’s been planned. But even a planned fantasy can still be a lot of fun. If you are thinking about sex in a service station, here are a few tips to plan a memorable experience.

Find the Garage

While using a public service station is ideal for this fantasy, unless you know someone who works in a garage this may not be an option. You can turn your own garage in to a makeshift station though. Have some tools that are commonly found for car repair in the garage, and have your man dress in coveralls. It’s a better experience if he can get them dirty too. Then just drive in and pretend it is a stranger you are asking to work on your car.


Once you’ve gotten the garage set up, be sure that you use lots of flirting and innuendos to pull the fantasy off. Pretending you have no money for a costly repair is a good start. This way you can barter for the repairs. Many women find that playing ‘dumb’ also helps the fantasy. A woman who knows about cars isn’t going to need a service station attendant to help her with anything.

Watching For Neighbors

Make sure that you are in a private location. If you aren’t, be sure to close the garage before you start playing. You don’t need your neighbors driving by and seeing the sultry show. The postman or other delivery man can also become uncomfortable if they were to see, and you may find yourself on the wrong side of the law if anyone complains.

30th Oct 10

Dogging can be done at any time of the day or night. There are some time frames that you will be more successful than others though. A lot of this is going to depend on your location.

Public Parks

Public parks are the number one place where dogging occurs. Many cities have tried to cut back on dogging instances by forcing security personnel to close the parks at dusk. In parks, dogging is most popular right after sunset. The evening is still early enough for people not to be tired, and the cover of night helps people feel more secure in this activity. If you’ve found a park that isn’t forced to close at sunset, you can usually have better luck between 7-10pm, and then the activity will usually pick up again much later after the bars close, around 3am.

With parks that do close, you want to be sure that you aren’t going to get caught and hauled in to jail. If the park closes at sunset, you can generally still find doggers just prior to sunset. A lot of people will ignore the park rules and sneak off in to a secluded area. Of course, others still have to know where to find them, so these people may post the location and markers online through a dogging forum. Just be aware this is risky, and you could face embarrassing trouble if you are found out.

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